3/20/2023 0 Comments The true game in life manipulation![]() This is where we start, and now’s the time to drop the manipulative tactics. One of the first and most important steps in ending the blame game is to admit you could possibly be wrong! Yes, it’s true! That mistake that was made could actually be your fault! Admitting your responsibility opens the way for a change. There may also be others whom you know that suffer from this “blame game” mentality, and there are ways to help. If you are willing, however, to look at yourself with fresh eyes, then there is hope. I remember trying to convince certain individuals in my life that they should take responsibility for the mistakes they made, and this only angered them and caused resentment. Unfortunately, some people may never stop playing the blame game, and this grieves my heart. People who always want to retain control will be prone to play the blame game as well. ![]() Why? Because to admit failure would be to lose control of the situation and of yourself. You might not have bad intentions and you might absolutely hate those words I just used, but control freaks will never be at blame for anything. I believe those who are arrogant are some of the hardest people to reach when it comes to making them face responsibilities. They tend to flaunt their abilities at blaming others and make no move to improve themselves or try to be better people. It’s easy to recognize an arrogant person, as well. In doing so, the arrogant person is able to retain their elevated status, as a self-proclaimed superior human being. This is usually an everyday activity for this character, walking around with an inflated ego and placing the responsibility for their actions on everyone else. Then you have the arrogant or egotistical individual who will always play the blame game. Unfortunately, this didn’t work and ultimately lead to worse feelings after the blame game ended. I felt that doing so would elevate how I felt about myself. As my self-esteem dropped, I found myself looking for reasons to pull others down with me. I must admit, I have been guilty of this one myself. However, sometimes the self-esteem falls so low that, in defense, these individuals may desperately try the blame game in order to improve their self-image. People with low self-esteem would seem like the last ones who you’d think would shift blame. This one is a little trickier to understand. It’s amazing how creative a pathological liar can get when shifting blame to someone who just isn’t responsible in the least. They will resort to stealing if they have to, in order to match their lies to the facts. Since they lie all the time, blaming their failures on others will be as simple as doing whatever it takes to make the blame stick. So, using the blame game on others seems quite fitting for them. Even the small things will be reason enough to be untruthful. The pathological liar will lie about anything, even if they don’t really feel it’s necessary to do so. Okay, there’s not much elaboration to be had when it comes to this individual. They are dangerous and unhealthy people to be around. This includes never taking responsibility for their actions. Honestly, they are crippled by low self-esteem and will do anything to prove the opposite. They feel the depths of their inferiority like no other. The reason for this is because this type of person wants you to believe they are superior, even though deep down inside, they know they’re not. A narcissist is never wrong and anything that happens to them is never their fault. The narcissist thrives off attention, and when they fail to get that attention, then they generally move on. ![]() This character is one of the most toxic manipulators. The blame game comes naturally to their mentality. They will relay sob stories and if you have ever failed them, they will remind you, for many years to come, of your failure. If they steal, it’s because of their misfortune in the past that has lead them to a life of crime, etc. If they have an angry outburst, it is because of the abuse they suffered in childhood. The “victim” will blame even the most obvious of their own flaws on anyone they can reach or talk to. The victim never lets go of past hurts or offenses, always blaming others for their inability to move forward in life. While they seem harmless at first, their words and actions can be toxic. If you’ve ever met the eternal “victim,” then you know how difficult getting through to them can be. Here are a few types of people who are experts at this manipulative tactic. They could be playing the blame game, and unfortunately, it could be a deep-seated part of their character. Pay attention to the small details when someone tries to lay blame on you. They are used to always getting their way, getting attention, and most of all, blaming anyone but themselves for the mishaps in their lives. There are certain types of individuals who live by this rule.
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